lilcowgirl4:

It’s not that you have issues…… it’s that you have a tendency to continue using instincts you picked up in childhood that are no longer useful to you on your journey towards achieving openness and intimacy and reliability in your personal relationships w others. It’s not that you’re defective or difficult or incapable it’s just that what you learned to do to save yourself from the experience of abandonment or rejection or ridicule or failure is not helpful here anymore and you need to start thinking creatively and collaborating on better ways to cope with that instrinsic fear that you are not correct, that you are faking, that you will be found out and left, whatever it is

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notoriousbarby:

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kimreesesdaughter:

No one owes you proof of their trauma or survival.

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cwote:

• No, to people when you don’t feel like hanging out
• No, to people who don’t deserve your time
  
• No, to people that make you feel uncomfortable
• No, to people that threaten your happiness
• No, to people that don’t let you be yourself
• No, to people that make you ashamed for what you like

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yungnefertiti:

only rich people say shit like “money won’t solve all your problems”. ummmmmm, actually, it literally would. all of them. every last one. like okay you had me with “money can’t buy happiness” but problem solving? oh its great for that.

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coutureicons:

tracee ellis ross in girlfriends

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amberispanda:

Repost if school has caused:

Anxiety
Depression
Suicidal thoughts
Social anxiety
Eating disorders
Self harm
Stress

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maladaptive-dreamer:

Some of y’all haven’t become so disillusioned with your own reality that you spend years of your life daydreaming about entirely made up worlds and people and it shows

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shawnsinmyblood:

PADS AND TAMPONS SHOULD BE FOR FREE REBLOG IF YOU AGREE

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g0ldiebox:

yourbigsisnissi:

You are in control of your attitude. Even on your worst day, you can treat people with kindness and respect. Going through a tough season is not an excuse to take that out on the people around you. Hold yourself accountable for your emotions and responses. And if you find yourself reacting negatively, be quick to apologize. Do not buckle down and let pride convince you you have a right to be a jerk. Own up to your bad attitude and apologize for projecting that on someone else’s peace.

thanks for the drag. I’ve been working on this

afrodesiacworldwide:

afrodesiacworldwide:

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